Rituals, Rules and Tasks

Many times those new in the lifestyle or those in a long distance Master and slave relationship want to know what the interaction is.  As of now,  i don't have many rules, rituals or tasks, but as Master gives them to me,  i will add them here and talk about them a bit.

After i wrote this intro, Master and i had a long day that ended with my having a lot more rituals and rules and tasks than i had before i wrote it.   As it turns out, i was craving and needing His control, but thought that asking for it was somehow topping from the bottom.  This is a phrase that is used to describe when a slave or sub tries to control the relationship.  

Master assured me that needing control and communicating with Him that i needed it was NOT topping from the bottom.  W/we sat down last night on skype and He gave me my list of tasks, and rituals that needed to be done every day.   It felt so.... just so amazing to feel His hand wrap around my soul as He took control of the minutes of my day.  

He told me that His control will grow until He is controlling every minute of my life and when i heard those words,  i felt a peace unlike anything i've ever known...and i felt VERY owned.  I am so thankful to Him for caring about me so much that He would care that His slave needed His control, His power...  It's exciting to know that this is JUST the beginning of His control over me. 

The following are my daily tasks and rituals:

Rules and rituals when i am not with Master

            Text Master a morning greeting BEFORE 11:00 am.  Include in morning greeting:  What i am wearing for the day, including panties and bra, socks, if any and  shoes.  Write my plan for the day in full for Master including any questions i have thought of to talk to Him about.

         Text Master before leaving the house at all times and text Him again once I get back to the  house. 

          Clean room every day, thoroughly, so it’s ready for Master’s inspection during skype time. 

  

           Exercise  daily. Exercise time must be done by 7:00 pm each evening

           Before 9:00pm each evening, get all major blogging/posting done on the blog and on fetlife and my journal.

            Put Master’s cuffs on at 9:00 pm each evening for the rest of the night.  (on Wed. wear the cuffs in my bra)

           Send Master my report by  12:00 each night

            Each night, before bed, 10 minutes meditation time, reflecting on myself and my slavery to Master.  Think about how i can better myself each day and serve Him better. 

             Bedtime no later than 3:30 am each night. 

  Rules and rituals for when i am with Master 

     
        you will ask before leaving My bed (if I am in it) except for bathroom or    sickness.  Morning greeting should always include palm/cheek ritual

 Whenever serving food or drink, you must not be higher than Me.  If I am sitting, you will kneel and present food/drink.  Glasses will always be kissed and rotated before offering.  Ask if you may eat also.

Always ask permission to leave the house (ie to smoke).  I want to know where you are at all times.

Your service wear or clothing will be pleasing and offer access.  Ie;, tee shirt, perhaps with slits to offer glimpses of nipples.  If using tee shirts or the like, keep in mind they should be disposable and not expensive.  Halters should be revealing, leather or mesh preferred. 

Lower clothing should be skirt or similar (this will be worked into as time goes on).  Possibly very tight jeans, NO bra or underwear.  Pantyhose is certainly acceptable, mesh or patterned - no sheer or mono colors.  Boots may be required in the future as your wardrobe builds. 

 Cuffs will be worn at all times - preferably heavy duty with D rings so I can restrain you on a whim.
 

Hair should be loose and flowing, unless ordered otherwise.

Your normal seated position away from the laptop is at My feet or side.  Permission must be asked to sit on the couch.
 

Watch for hand movements beckoning you to My side.  If I am seated, you will kneel or sit and remain close.  This applies to Lifestyle events as normal Protocol as well.